Monday, November 28, 2011

Directionally Challenged

In high school, one time I took a girlfriend to our nearby library via the interstate. Only I enjoyed our conversation so much that I missed our exit by just an hour. In college, I had no car, so I took the bus one time. I needed to go to an orthodontic appointment on Center St. where I attended college. When I got to the Center St. exit, I was so proud of myself for navigating the bus system. I got off the bus and recognized nothing.  There was no one around. So, I flagged down a bus and told the bus driver my plight. He said “You’re in the wrong city! You’re at Center St in Orem instead of Center St in Provo.” Oops! I missed my appointment and felt a wee bit foolish giving the reason why… “I was in the wrong city.”
This weekend, I needed to pick up a girlfriend in Central, Utah, two hours away. I looked up the directions to Mount Pleasant in MapQuest and printed them. I left feeling mostly confident.  All I needed to do was follow the directions. I blared my Christian Rock music and enjoyed the drive. My exit was 258. All of a sudden, I noticed that I was at a passing a lower exit number than 258. Did the numbers go up or down going Southbound? I passed another exit just to make sure and the numbers were indeed going down. I had missed my exit! So, I got off at the next exit and headed Northbound. I figured that a nearby Northbound exit would go the same direction. Exit 259 It wasn’t exactly the same, but it had the same Hwy 6 in it. So, I exited the freeway but then came to a startling realization. I had no idea which direction Mount Pleasant, Utah was. I didn’t know whether to go East or West. So, I hopped back going Southbound for quite a way and then turned around and went Northbound again.

This time my goal was to overshoot the Southbound exit and get off at my original exit. I thought I had timed it just right but my first exit was 257 instead of 258. So I drove a long ways and turned around again. This time I would definitely go past my exit and turnaround and make it. Did I mention that this was a corridor of construction? The signs were small, the exits difficult to navigate. I pealed my eyes for exit 258 but it wasn’t there. I passed higher numbers but no 258. After all that, and exit 258 had been lost to construction!! I quickly looked at exit 257 A and B and it mentioned Highway 6. I made an executive decision and decided to take the exit. I took the branch toward Hwy 6.  Hwy 6 only seemed to go in one direction so I took it until I could get off and double-check my directions. I stopped at a Burger King and asked the cashier if I was on Hwy 6 toward Price and Ephraim (and Mount Pleasant). He confirmed. I also called my husband and he told me that Mount Pleasant was East.

My diversion put me 40 minutes off schedule. I felt a little silly again telling my friend why I was running late. “I was having too much fun doing loop de loops on the freeway.” For the rest of trip, I reset the odometer and paid strict attention to how many miles I should go before an exit. Maybe I’ll never get lost again. Maybe I’ll never get distracted and miss my exit again. That’s a good one! Sometimes, life is like that. We might have detours and distractions on our way to our destination…but it sure makes for a good story.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Not a Mascara Day

This past week my teenage son needed help on an assignment due the next day. I silently prayed to be blessed in helping him. Things went very smoothly. Afterward, I told my son about my prayer. He shrugged it off but I hoped it was sinking in on some level. Today, he asked me to watch a movie with him. Secret be told, I’d do almost anything to spend time with him or be near him.  Then he asked for some guidance with another school assignment due tomorrow. I provided great help and he forgot to thank me.
Later I had an “aha” moment as I caught my breath in my throat. I lay on my bed and tears flowed freely. I felt enveloped in the warmth of my bedroom light. “This” I thought “is how God feels.” Although God is always there, few have time for Him. Even fewer listen to His guidance. So, He delights in any time we’ll have Him around.  He loves us. He adores us. He takes pleasure in being around us. He’ll take any opportunity or invitation to be near us. When we ask for His help, usually at the last minute, He’s always there. Even when we forget to thank Him, He still loves us.


When I thought I’d cried myself out, I lay on my bed with a warm, contented smile on my face. Then the crying began again. It's a good thing I didn’t wear mascara today. (I do try to live by intuition.) It’s awesome to think that the God of the Universe wants to spend time with little ‘ol me. He’ll take any time He can get. He loves me! Imagine what our relationship with God could be like if we invited Him into our lives as in Revelation 3:20: "Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me." We could hang out all the time. Oops, here come the tears...

Friday, November 11, 2011

Gratitude is the Key

Gratitude is the key to unlock our happiness, to be thankful for everything in our lives, both the good and the bad.

Recently, I heard this quote on gratitude that got me thinking:
“What if you woke up tomorrow with only the things you thanked God for today?” Would we have much left?




I once heard a thoughtful poem that had a big impact on me to be thankful for the things we usually complain about. Here it is:

”Be Thankful For…

The mess to clean after a party because it means I have been surrounded by friends.

The taxes I pay because it means that I’m employed.

The clothes that fit a little too snug because it means I have enough to eat.

My shadow who watches me work because it means I am out in the sunshine.

A lawn that needs mowing, windows that need cleaning and gutters that need fixing because it means I have a home.

All the complaining I hear about our government because it means we have freedom of speech.

The space I find at the far end of the parking lot because it means I am capable of walking.

My huge heating bill because it means I am warm.

The lady behind me in church who sings off key because it means that I can hear.

The piles of laundry and ironing because it means I have clothes to wear.

Weariness and aching muscles at the end of the day because it means I have been productive.

The alarm that goes off in the early morning hours because it means that I’m alive.

Getting too much email bogs me down but at least I know I have friends who are thinking of me.”

-Unknown

Try being thankful today for something you normally would complain about. 

“Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance.”
-Eckhart Tolle

“And he who receiveth all things with thankfulness shall be made glorious; and the things of this earth shall be added unto him, even an hundred fold, yea, more.
- D&C 78:19

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving! Gratitude is truly the key to happiness. The more grateful we are, the happier we will be. Be thankful for having a mess to clean up because it means you have good food and loved ones around.

Friday, November 4, 2011

If God Were a Chef

What if God were a chef and you were the main course? I’m not talking about cannibalism-that makes me laugh. Let’s say what you have to offer to the Universe, God put together as a spiritual meal.  Would you be a snack? Would you be fast food? Or, would you be a gourmet meal? If God could take a few fishes and loaves of bread and feed 5000 people, I’m pretty sure He can make more of us than we think we are. Sometimes I pray that God makes more of me than I think I am, a meager sardine and crostini. I think God as a chef can make anything out of our ingredients, even trout ice cream, like on "The Iron Chef."  Every meal reigns supreme and is a culinary masterpiece, as unique as each of us.


I believe at sometime in our earlier existence, we put an “order” up for our lives, like an order in a restaurant. But we didn't order food.  This order consisted of the longings of our very soul, what we wanted to learn, and who we wanted to become. Now, we have the raw ingredients, but God has the tools to take our raw ingredients and turn them into a gourmet meal, fit for a king. Along the way, things might get uncomfortable, with the heat of the stove and all, and being diced into pieces. It’s hard to understand from the viewpoint of a meal in motion why we have to go through such hardship. And sometimes, the meal takes much longer to prepare than we ever imagined. We might begin to question our worth and even our destiny.
But I am here to tell you that God knows what He is doing. He knows His way around a spiritual kitchen. He knows the way around our souls. So, if the heat is on in your life and you feel like you’re being diced to pieces, don’t fret. A gourmet meal is in the works.  Order up!